No the current factual situation is that FDev are currently not supporting VR in Odyssey when it launches many months from now.You're putting words in my mouth, I don't think FD hate VR users or that they don't want their money.
FD have clarified their position, they have stated "no VR at launch", they have also NOT stated, "we commit to VR after launch".
ergo, the current factual situation is that FD are not supporting VR in Elite from Odyssey forward.
'Hoping' that will change is not supported by their current statements. Even giving the benefit of the doubt FD have used the "not at launch" term before with no follow up.
We're broadly agreeing you know, but for VR users the time to speak up is now.
Past performance is not proof of things happening the same way in the future.
I do agree that now is a good time for VR users to speak out.